[Love soul feast: the Elvish do the funeral rites. It's sending everyone dead and regret things such as family, friends, lovers, this world become undead and Ghost remained so.
[Feast of Sotamashi] The elves do, a funeral ritual. so that the dead family and friends, is that it is regret, such as a lover is not undead, such as ghosts remain in this world, and he sends out in everyone.
The idea of soul feast. The elf, funeral rites. The dead family members and friends, not to stay in this world of ghost and regret becoming undead, such as lover, you send out.